I love being submissive to my husband, so seeing other women being submissive to their lovers is a turn-on for both of us. What is tit-slapping? It’s exactly what it sounds like: basically having your boobs spanked.ģ. I had heard of it, but never considered it until I watched it and my brain and body made the connection that “Hey, I think I’d like that.” My husband was ecstatic as it was something he had always wanted to try but was too shy to ask about. My husband enjoys watching two girls together because he is guy I enjoy watching because I have a pretty strong desire to make out with a girl one day.Ģ. Girls are soft, girls are pretty, girls are generally less aggressive than men are, and let’s be honest - girls know what girls like because girls have the same parts as other girls. Here are some of our favorite pornographic pleasures:ġ. It helps that we’re both open-minded in regards to sex but we still find it easier to find new positions and ideas from porn than trying to describe what we think we’d like.

Yes, porn is getting a bad rap lately, and it should - I’ve watched porn destroy many a relationship because it was either kept secret or abused to the point where the lines between reality and porn blur into a muddled mess of pain and confusion for everyone involved.īut I’ve learned that porn, when viewed with my husband, can actually be wonderfully beneficial to both of us. But how do you go about approaching the subject?

What would happen? Would someone’s head explode? Would you feel judged? Would your lover even know what tit slapping was? IT’S SUCH A RISK! So how does a happy and healthy sexually active couple go about figuring out the hard and soft limits of their sexuality? If you lead a fairly vanilla life chances are you’re completely unaware to just how much pleasure there is to be had out there. Imagine turning to your lover right now and saying, “Tonight I would like you to slap my tits until they bruise.” Here’s what I’ve figured out about getting your kink on with a lover: Unless you meet on a fetish forum or get real drunk with each other, your secret desires to be spanked, whacked, choked, and manhandled will probably go unspoken.

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